" And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love." ( 1 Cor. 13:1-13 ) How many times I have used this scripture in a wedding as a sort of biblical guideline for a solid marriage. Follow these words of advice from the apostle Paul, I say, and you will live happily ever after. Not really. I chose this photo from a wedding, which, for the boy, gives him a new parent. Adjustments are in his future. I imagine this would be the apostle Paul's reaction if he heard these verses used in a wedding. That's because he was writing to the Corinthian church experiencing deep divisions because of moral and ethical issues. He wanted new life for the church based on higher righteousness and honorable principles. He is convinced, that with holy loving at the center, people in the church could co-exist and attain these higher principles. Holy loving, Paul believed, would create, sustain, and build Christian unity among the Corinthians. In r...